Friday, October 22, 2010
Welding Poetry
Thursday, October 7, 2010
Fly Flea
Tuesday, October 5, 2010
Floating in Space
Thursday, September 16, 2010
Dearest Hen
Losing the battle
If you've ever been appalled by a female friend telling you she's been to a strip-bar, then told you to 'lighten up, it's only fun' when you show your displeasure, this book will validate your unease.
In Female Chauvinist Pigs, Levy investigates why - after decades of women fighting against being classified as pieces of meat - some young women today are perfectly happy to be represented as such. These young girls enter wet t-shirt competitions (which should rightfully have died with Jim Davidson's career), take pole dancing lessons, go to topless bars on a works night out, and buy Playboy pencil cases for their pre-teen daughters. They say they're doing it because the battle for equality with men has been won - and they are free to represent their sexuality in any way they choose. The fact that they choose to do it in the same way Page 3 and Hugh Hefner have been doing for years seems lost on them. In this book Ariel Levy interviews young women from various different backgrounds to find out why they are happy to be valued for their breasts rather than their brains.
Reading the book, I felt so angry that women have allowed themselves (ourselves) to be manipulated into believing that public nudity is empowering and that anyone who refuses to laugh along is some kind of prude with no sense of humour. The women who fought so hard for equality must be wondering what went wrong. I am.
Monday, August 2, 2010
Crack Caramel
Monday, July 26, 2010
Best Book Ever!
Friday, July 16, 2010
Arias under the stars
Wednesday, July 7, 2010
A home video of gay men playing with giant Barbie dolls
Tuesday, July 6, 2010
London Kills Me!
Monday, June 28, 2010
Can't you keep your mouth shut?
Monday, June 21, 2010
Pure grace and beauty
Dance rarely moves me to tears, but the pas de deux Fix Me Jesus by the Alvin Ailey dance company at BAM last week made me cry. Its sheer, simple beauty combined with the spiritual music was unlike anything I had ever seen. Plus, being brought up on European Classical ballet with its tradition of being singularly unimpressed by the dancers until the curtain falls, I loved the audience in Brooklyn whooping and cheering individual steps - these dancers have incredible strength and control and deserve props like break dancers and musicians!
Whilst she wasn't dancing this particular piece, I have to single out Briana Reed (pictured above during Wade in the Water) - one of the best dancers I've ever seen - so strong, joyful and expressive. Wow. Made me want to start dancing again and push my body to extremes.
You can see Fix Me Jesus on youtube, but I am almost reluctant to post the link - as I think seeing it online loses so much of the impact of being immersed in the soaring music and the intimacy of two people dancing barefoot.
Thursday, May 27, 2010
Best Food EVER!
My favorite place in all of New York is Pates et Traditions in Williamsburg, a french creperie where the sun is always shining and the conversation is always tres jolie. I always stick with the same dish when I eat here - Le Popeye. Can you guess what its main ingredients are? The service is amazing, the other diners are almost exclusively French and the Prosseco is delicious and not too pricey - hurrah! Sit outside under cherry red umbrellas and feel the best of French cuisine and laid back Brooklyn come together in glorious gluttony.
Plus, last time I ate here a fellow diner turned out to be James Murphy of LCD Sound System!
Monday, May 17, 2010
Mr Big Stuff
Thankfully, it's many years since I needed a good heartbreak song, but today walking along with my ipod shuffling, I was struck by the important role music played in my youth, when I'd been treated appallingly by some indie boy with good hair and a half decent record collection.
Jean Knight's Mr Big Stuff was always a firm favorite back in the mid 90s when I always seemed to get hug up on the wrong sort. Luckily, I went to clubs where I could belt out the words to this classic - typically followed by Aretha, socking it to us R.E.S.P.E.C.T style. Listening to Jean all these years later, I am still bowled over by the power of music linked to memory and how I am suddenly transported from the streets of Brooklyn to a sweaty nightclub in Liverpool in 1996. Also, I still get the same feeling of being ten feet tall, surrounded by my girls and completely empowered - who needs stupid boys and their black polo necks/chain smoking/ philandering ways when you can dance? Plus, I defy you to listen to Mr Big Stuff right now and try not to walk with a self-confident swagger!
My ipod helpfully gave me the male perspective next with Lee Dorsey's Get Out my Life Woman. Of course, McAlmont and Butler brought the 'screw you I don't need you' up to date (for my late teens anyway) with Yes.. and it's immortal line "I feel well enough to tell you what you can do with what you've got to offer". Take that indie boys!
Wednesday, May 12, 2010
The tipping point
Ok, I have been told by several readers to actually start venting some spleen on this blog about the worst things in life.. and so now's the time.
Wednesday, April 28, 2010
By the Grace of Vogue
The other star of the show is Grace Coddington, the ex-model who's been the creative pulse of Vogue for 20 years. Anna describes her as a creative genius - and watching her style a fashion shoot at Versailles is breathtaking - she has an incredible feel for every detail. Plus, she is a hilarious woman. I would love have afternoon tea with her, or visit her house in the Hamptons and meet all her cats.
As a Brit in New York myself, I am fascinated by their success - but not surprised. Their Britishness makes them seem more assertive and decisive somehow, compared with the airy fairy attitude of some of their colleagues. People in New York always say how 'smart' they think Brits are because of the accent. Team that with a no-bullshit attitude and some glowering, and you've got a killer combination ready to dominate fashion publishing.
Tuesday, April 20, 2010
My guitar hero
It's probably the most obvious thing to say at the moment, bearing in mind the Jett-mania which seems to have swept the world since the release of the Runaways film, but I am still going to dedicate today's best thing to Joan Jett. Watching the film, I was completely in awe of a teenage girl who could live the rock n roll dream to its fullest, who dressed so completely her own way and who really did beat the boys at their own game.
Women in rock is thankfully a well-worn path now, but there are still shamefully few female guitarists who compete in that Hendrix/Clapton/Slash league. In fact, Joan Jett and Joni Mitchell were the only two women featured in Rolling Stone's 100 greatest guitarists poll a few years ago. Is this because women aren't inspired to play the guitar in that very male tradition? Or is it because women's pop music is more collaborative - not allowing for the attention grabbing geeeetar solo favored by their male counterparts? Maybe it's because guitarists are a bit geeky and all that obsessional stuff about types of guitars and pedals doesn't appeal to many girls. Lita Ford played lead in the Runaways - but Joan played rhythm guitar - and always seemed to be the beating heart of the band.
I wonder if this film will encourage young girls to pick up the guitar and learn to play - and I mean really play. I always dreamed of being in a band when I was 15, but I completely lacked the discipline and confidence needed to take it to any level beyond after school pub discussions. What impresses me the most about the young JJ is that she took Bowie, T-Rex and the Pistols and rampaged head first into the dirty music business taking no shit from anyone. She never once seemed to think she couldn't do it. Her stance, her sneer, her raw power unlike any other female musician before her - she made the blueprint. My favorite bit of the film, incidentally was the beautiful Crimson and Clover segment which I won't discuss in more detail, in case you haven't yet seen the film. It's probably one of the most romantic (lesbian) moments in 21st century cinema. Hmmm - there probably haven't been that many admittedly - but let's start a list!
Monday, April 12, 2010
It had to be you!
I've come to terms with the fact that When Harry Met Sally is one of my favorite films. This has recently been confirmed to me as I've listened several times to an amazing Radio 4 documentary celebrating 20 years since the film's release. It shames me to note that I cried both times JUST LISTENING TO THE DOCUMENTARY not even watching the film itself! Of course, when I watch the film I laugh and cry in equal measure. I had a copy on VHS which (together with Gone With the Wind) got me through 9 months living in one of Britain's most depressing places. I am an unabashed romantic - and also someone who has often questioned whether men and women can be proper friends - and I mean friendships in which there has never been ANY attraction on either side. Now, I think it's possible - but it's a lot rarer then people would have you believe.
Another reason for my renewed love of When Harry Met Sally is it's New York setting. It's never classified as a 'New York' film, but living here now I feel it couldn't have been set anywhere else - especially at the tail end of the 1980s. Harry and Sally relocate from Chicago to the big apple at the start of the film. They are young, upwardly mobile and dead set on independence - a big theme of the era.
An interesting point made by one contributor to the documentary: even though WHMS is so popular, we have seen a degeneration in romantic comedy movies since its release. The film was aimed at both men and women - the wise cracking relationship between the couple appealing to both sexes. Sally's character in particular was complex and real - a world away from the dumb 'anywoman' characters in Judd Apatow pictures for example. Nowadays we are force-fed bland rom-coms starring Amy Adams - and they are exclusively aimed at women. I wish the documentary was still online for you to listen to - but alas no. You'll just have to make do with the film itself.
P.s geeky fan fact alert - When Harry Met Sally was the first time the phrase 'high maintenance' was used to describe someone!
Sunday, April 4, 2010
No Fleas on Me!
My favourite place in the world to be (other than in bed) at the moment is the Brooklyn Flea. This adventure into a world of antiques, vintage clothes and hand-crafted wonders, takes place every weekend in Forte Greene, Brooklyn.
All winter I have enjoyed travelling to the handsome former Williamsburgh Savings Bank Tower at One, Hanson Place for several hours of truffling for treasure! As of next weekend, the flea market will be outside on Saturdays, and stay indoors on Sundays. Personally, whilst I love the great outdoors - you can't beat the breath-taking splendour of this building.
It was constructed in the 1920s, when banks liked to show off their wealth (before they started stealing ours). The sheer scale of the place is incredible - a soaring, vaulted gold dome would be more at home in a European cathedral than a bank, and there's an incredible mosaic map on the far wall, which I presume shows Brooklyn, with Manhattan in the far distance! It's amazing to imagine what it would have been like to be a bank teller working there in the 1930s and 40s. As it stands today, it's one of the best flea markets I have ever been to. Actually, I'd call it an antiques fair as the prices are on the steep side, particularly for clothes. But the stuff is great quality. My favourite finds so far - a 1950s picnic set (a snip at $20), a gorgeous 80s silk summer dress and a book from 1972, entitled 'What Makes Men Tick'.. more of which to come in a later post!
Tuesday, March 23, 2010
The Best Edition Of Desert Island Discs yet!
Monday, March 22, 2010
Spun out by a great New York novel
I have just finished Colum McCann's colossal New York novel 'Let the Great World Spin'. Several different narrators weave in and out of each other's lives against the back drop of Philipe Petit's infamous tightrope walk between the twin towers of the World Trade Center in 1974.
It's one of those books which is so beautifully written you have to keep putting it aside just to digest the use and choice of words. I loved the idea of taking that incredible walk as an underlying theme - the idea that Petit did something so audacious and creative and made something put of thin air - yet that walk, that view doesn't exist anymore. As McCann writes, "The tightrope walk was an act of creation that seemed to stand in direct defiance to the act of destruction twenty seven years later".
The book isn't explicitly a 9/11 novel, but Colum McCann was inspired to write it after his father in law escaped from his office in the north tower, and walked to the family home covered in that grim dust. It's true too that every time you picture the tiny figure balancing between those two towers, you can't help but think what came afterwards, and how New York as a city was united by those two episodes in very different ways. It's definitely story which feeds off New York city - from the Bronx projects aflame to a Park Avenue penthouse.
We went to hear Colum McCann talk about the novel a few weeks ago at the Powerhouse Arena in DUMBO, and it was refreshing to hear someone talk honestly about the length of time it takes to write a book - and the difficulty of speaking in voices which are not your own.
Sunday, March 21, 2010
My New Favourite Artist (for today, anyway)
There are few things finer than wandering into a gallery to see the work of an artist you have never heard of, only to discover he or she is actually one of your favourites! This happened to me at MOMA in New York city last week, and as a result of my conversion I advise you to make William Kentridge your new number one.
His exhibition Five Themes is a brilliant, multimedia swoop through drawing, torn paper, animation, film and theatre design. Taking themes from the history of his native South Africa and mixing them with avant garde film history and Russian literature - this exhibition will appeal to those who like an artist who can really draw/paint and those who seek to be gobsmacked that one person is capable of creating this immense body of work over just 20 years. My favorite section was an auditorium where we sat spellbound as a mechanical theatre starring motorized puppets and an animated rhino performed Mozart's The Magic Flute. I can say no more than that as I would love you to go and see it for yourselves. Magical. I can truly say I have never seen anything like it. The mechanism reminded me of a toy theatre I had as a child.
This week I have been thinking about the marriage of 'art' and music - and how people who are adept at one often are extremely talented at the other. Check out Iannis Xenakis at the Drawing Center in New York for more. Made my head hurt.